My mother died yesterday afternoon, peacefully and at home. I am going to be out of commission for a few days, to be with my dad and the rest of the family.

My mother died yesterday afternoon, peacefully and at home. I am going to be out of commission for a few days, to be with my dad and the rest of the family.
My phone situation while traveling is comical, but I’m getting smarter. Learn from my experience. Or please tell me how I can be smarter. I have eliminated the killer cell phone bills I used to get while traveling. Here is what I am doing, and how I will improve the system.
I carry the following:
Four numbers, three phones.
I am actually a normal person here in the Middle East and Asia. Pretty much everyone I have seen has two phones on them (iPhone plus something else is normal, and that “something else” is a Blackberry as often as not). Sit down at a table, plonk down your mobiles. At home, however, the multiple phone thing drives my wife bonkers. ![]()
At home I also have the super secret Batphone on Verizon which sadly doesn’t travel outside the USA.
I have solved the problem of inSANE voice and data roaming rates on my ATT and T-Mobile USA phones by buying prepaid SIM cards everywhere I go. Cheap.
I think I spent AED 200 (a little more than $60) with Etisalat in Dubai and got more minutes and text messages and data service than I need. I spent probably SAR 150 on prepaid SIM plus recharge cards on Mobily here in Riyadh (maybe $45).
Except for inbound calls and checking voice mails, I’m not going to see the $1,000+ cell phone bills I have experienced in the past. It is worth carrying around a few extra phones to save that kind of money.
The “too many phones” problem will be solved later today. I’m going to get a dual SIM clunky phone. That eliminates one phone in my pocket.
The expensive mobile data problem ($20/MB? GDIAF T-Mobile and ATT) remains. Buying a month of data service on a prepaid SIM card is trivially easy (just send an SMS and you’re in business) and it’s cheap. I’m going to buy an unlocked iPhone from Apple which I can then use at home and abroad. All of the business apps on my iPhone will then work well, via the local data plan instead of the loco U.S. carrier data roaming.
If anyone out there has suggestions on how to better manage international mobile phone costs, please let me know.
Coffee, taxi, meeting, taxi, coffee. Repeat. Did I remember to eat? Why do I have so many phones in my pocket?
Sunday in Riyadh. One taxi ride to the Sulaymaniyah District, meeting, return. Coffee at the Starbucks on Tamimi Street behind my hotel, next to the Al Khozama Hotel. Repeat two more times today.
I’m back at the Faisaliah after the second meeting of the day. Ran into Moyed in the lobby. Upstairs to my room with the 5kg of dates (!) that I hope I can get through customs in Los Angeles.
Coffee, water, get ready for taxi, meeting, taxi. You’d think Riyadh is a big city but no. People I know also know people I know. If you get what I mean. It’s strange.
It is Sunday morning in Riyadh. I have a busy day ahead of me.
Here is the view from Room 243 of the Al Faisaliah Hotel. In the far distance, barely visible is Kingdom Tower, home of the Four Seasons Hotel, where I have stayed on previous trips. That is the silver building with the necklace-shaped hole in it. Or a downward-facing D. Whatever. There is a mosque near to me (on the right of the picture) and of course there are buildings under construction everywhere.

And a view down to the ground. This little friend is a gift from my youngest child. She made it in First Grade, I think. I take her little snowman on almost every trip I make. There are actually two coffee shops, side-by-side, on the street. There is a Starbucks on Tamimi Street right behind me.
Coffee is essential.

Yes, I do in fact have a small balcony.
(Aside: this went out to the subscribers to my email newsletter as I was sitting in the terminal at LAX waiting to fly to the Middle East. The newsletter is called “Jell-O Shots.” Very fast, very effective. You should sign up. You’ll get quick, jet-lagged missives when I’m on a plane or about to be. There is a signup area on the front page of this website.)
Headed to Dubai and Riyadh. Topics: real estate and expatriation. People vote with their feet and their wallets.
After a long absence, the Jell-O Shot returns. Mostly I write this while sitting in an airport somewhere, usually jet lagged. I haven’t been on a long flight since last May. This email is your clue that travel is kicking back in gear.
I’m headed for Dubai, then Riyadh. This is a normal loop for me. The two things on the agenda for meetings?
For most people, the concept of nonresidents buying U.S. real estate will generate a yawn. Dog bites man. Film at 11. The market is down, the dollar is cheap. What’s not to like? (FWIW I see purchases of single family homes for personal use as well as traditional commercial/investment property purchases). My job there is to make it happen. And keep the taxes low, as much as possible at least.
People are voting with their wallets.
But expatriation? Yes. Our office is doing a startlingly large volume of business in helping people terminate their U.S. citizenship or green cards.
People are voting with their feet.
The process is complex — not only do you log out of the citizenship/residence system, but you also have to log out of the U.S. tax system properly. That can get expensive. The IRS behaves somewhat like a lover scorned, wanting to land one last kick in your derriere as you’re walking out the door.
When I go to the Middle East (and I go a lot) people grumble about U.S. foreign policy. But people don’t terminate their U.S. citizenship for that reason, in my experience. They cite U.S. tax policies.
Reflexively you think, aha! They don’t want to pay income tax. Well, not exactly. Our best salesman is IRS Commission Shulman and his holy war on U.S. taxpayers who have foreign bank accounts. Bluntly, it is the prospect of facing dozens of required tax forms — sometimes obscure — with monster penalties if you screw things up. This has been the pattern since 2008 when the IRS started gearing up to pursue offshore bank accounts held by U.S. persons.
Living a normal life and unintentionally subjecting yourself to gigantic (as in hundreds of thousands of dollars) penalties for a paperwork foot fault strikes most people as unfair.
The second tax reason given is the estate tax. For multinational families with assets abroad, with some family members U.S. citizens and some not, the U.S. estate tax can eviscerate the family firm, or the family real estate holdings. If the wealth was created outside the U.S. with significant non-U.S. inputs (human or capital) it strikes many as unfair to sacrifice 35% to the United States Treasury.
The U.S. passport is too expensive. What you get for what you pay is out of balance.
That’s why people give up citizenship and permanent resident status.
And the people who are doing this are precisely the people you’d want as productive, contributing members of the U.S. society.
End of rant. ![]()
I’m sitting in the barn that passes for a terminal at LAX, ready to board the bus to take me to the Emirates nonstop to Dubai. I’m looking forward to re-connecting with friends there. More later.
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Phil.
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